Cybersafety
The issue of Cybersafety was addressed in the 2007 School Play - Rhyme and Reason
A very useful link is here - the Federal Government's Sybersmart kids site.
Some Guidance for Parents & Carers
The following notes are adapted from "Internet Safety for Teachers, Parents and Caregivers", by Senior Constable Susan McLean, Victoria Police, 2007
Where to put the computer
- Put the computer in a common area of the house, not in the bedroom.
- Parental monitoring is vital – walk past regularly and see what your child is doing, no matter their age
Computer setup
- Consider installing an internet filter
- Set Google search preferences to "moderate", at least
- Record your computer’s IP address somewhere
Good Computer Behaviours
- Set house rules for computer use about what can be put on personal websites, what can be said about others on MySpace/Facebook, or what information can be shared with others
- Spend time online together (eg researching the next family holiday)
- Model constructive computer use for children in the house.
Some sample house rules
- Hours of use are …
- No inappropriate (sexual or violent content) sites.
- Exit sites immediately that the family would not be comfortable with
- No aimless “googling” – all computer use should have a purpose
- No harassment or bullying of other people, or abusive language
- No exchange of personal information on the web
- MySpace/Facebook settings must be set to private (so other users must be invited by your child to share information)
- MSN (instant messaging) contacts must be people your child knows in real life
- If there is a problem, our family talks about it.
Don’t
- Don't respond to rude or harassing emails (keep a record in case of further investigation)
- Don't allow very young children to use the computer unsupervised
Do
- Do block senders on MSN (instant messaging) who send harassing emails
- Do teach children that the internet is not always reliable
As a parent, be aware
- Young people often don’t have refined expression skills when typing. The intent of a message can therefore be easily misunderstood. Don’t allow MSN or email to replace human contact.
- Three quarters of children will not tell a parent/teacher if bullied or harassed online, for fear of loosing their internet access!
- If you find inappropriate content about your/any child on a website contact the ISP and/or the Police.
- You need to learn something about computers – especially your child’s favourite sites, and some of the lingo
- You can start a new email account with ease if too many unwanted people know the old one.
Useful Websites
www.cybersmartkids.com.au
www.netalert.com.au